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How to quit breastfeeding a baby

Breastfeeding is the best way to raise a healthy newborn, but only you can determine when to quit breastfeeding. When appropriate time comes to stop breastfeeding your child, you may find it hard to do. Try these ideas to quit breastfeeding.

Baby gets to know the routine, so don’t change too many of baby’s routines all at once. In other words, when it is time for feeding, give a bottle, but use the same room and chairs normally used. This soothes a baby and helps to pass to different ways of feeding.

Lower the amount of feeds per day slowly and consistently. Sometimes it is difficult to bring breastfeeding to a sudden stop. Your child will not understand and will have trouble adapting. If you have to deal with a fussy baby, you are liable to surrender and go ahead and breastfeed. So it’s a good idea to slowly wean a baby from breastfeeding, rather than quitting it at one go. To begin, cut out one daily feeding. It may occur at any moment, daytime or nighttime. In case a baby is hungry at this moment, provide him with bottle of infant formula or milk. By this time, a child may want solid food as well. Subsequently reduce the number of breastfeedings per day, one at a time, once a baby is comfortable. At some point, your baby will no longer expect to be breastfed.

Take care of breasts. Your milk secretion may continue in large quantities, even if you stop breastfeeding in a phased manner. Be careful to pay attention to your breasts during this transition period, to avoid the risk of a possibly painful infection. If you feel pain in breast, don’t breastfeed, but rather take a shower. When you are showering, the act of massaging your breasts will minimize lumps – but be gentle to avoid triggering the milk flow.

Let it take its own course. Sometimes babies will begin taking solid food, instead of depending so much on mother’s milk – they just pass the transition easily. When your child doesn’t want to be breastfed any more, he or she will let you know.

Accept dad’s help, as much as you can. Since mothers tend to comfort crying babies, most often they will use breastfeeding, as a way to soothe a baby. Dad can execute some of soothing duties, if you don’t need to breastfeed a child. He should get up during the night and put a child back to sleep. A baby will eventually be soothed by different things, not only due to breast milk. If a baby is not attached to mom, it will be very easy, when time for breastfeeding to be stopped comes.

Preparing to become a parent: 11 challenging, but effective ways

Preparing for paternity, as well as motherhood, is not easy, if you deal with this role for the first time. But there is a way, and not the only one, that can help you being mentally prepared for this difficult step, avoiding complications in future. However, remember, these methods are designed for people with iron psyche.

1. Women. To prepare for fullness, put on a loose dress and fix a pouch on your stomach, you need to wear it within 9 months and burden at 2 kg every month. After 9 months remove 20% of 18 gained kgs.

Men. To prepare for the joys of fatherhood, agree with the accountant department to transfer your whole salary immediately to the account of pharmacy nearest to your home. Having come home, lie on a sofa and read a newspaper for the last time.

2. Before you start a family, find a couple who already has children, and give them comments on how they should teach their child to order, as well as the fact that they behave too nervous with their child.

Tell them they should be patient. Give them tips on time they need to put a child to sleep at, how to teach him washing and brushing teeth in the morning, behaving at the table, in general, how to nurture him the right way.

Snatch at a chance: this is the last time in your life when you know all the answers.

3. To learn more about how your nights will pass, walk around the room from corner to corner from 5 PM to 10 PM, holding a wet bundle weighing about 5 kg in your hands. At 10 PM put a bundle, set an alarm-clock at midnight and go to bed. At midnight wake up, take the bundle again and walk with it back-forward till 1 AM. Set an alarm-clock for 3 AM.

As you will not manage to sleep anymore, rise up out of bed at 2 AM, go to the kitchen to have a glass of white Martini (for example) and go to bed at 2:45 again. At 3 AM wake up and sing up to 4 AM. Set the alarm for 5 AM. Stand up for the call and prepare yourself breakfast. Repeat this exercise every day throughout the year (preferably two).

4. Can you stand the mess a little child can arrange?

Coat gradually every item of upholstered furniture with jam, chocolate and yogurt.

Put some pieces of food (your choice) behind the TV and in drawers and leave them there for several months. Dirty your hands and dry them on the carpet. Then try to hide appeared spots painting them with color pencils.

5. Dressing a child is not so easy, as it seems. Catch an octopus in the sea and try to box it up in a plastic bag, in a way that none of arms would stick out of the package. Execution of this exercise requires the whole morning.

6. Take a pack of pasta and a plate with size of approximately 40×40 cm. Stick macaroni on the plate, creating a circle, cover them with lacquer and paint plate in black. Fix fasteners to the back of board and hang it on the wall. Let these splendid «beads as a gift for Mother’s Day» hanging for five years.

7. Buy a chocolate ice cream and place it in a glovebox. Stick a few coins in car audio. Crush some chocolate candies in the back seat, stroke it with a metal shovel.

8. Preparing for those days when you are going somewhere with whole family. Be prepared to leave the house. Wait at the bathroom’s door for half an hour, then go to the front door. Go out. Wait at the door for five minutes. Enter again. Exit again. Enter again. Exit again. Start the car. Press the gas pedal nervously.

Beep. Switch off the engine. Go out of the car. If you smoke, have your tenth cigarette. If not – bite nails. On feet. Come to the front door, press the call button for a minute. Shout: «Are you soon???» Go to the street and walk for 5-10 minutes. Sit in the car. Beep once again. Turn on the radio. You are aware of this aspect in full.

9. Repeat your each phrase five times, periodically adding: «Do you hear me?».

10. In order to learn feeding a child, ask your wife to help you. Let she repeat: «This spoon – for dad.» Ask her moving the spoon to your mouth, while playing in the plane at the same time (imitate engine’s noise using your lips).

When the spoon is in your mouth, waggle your head (as if wishing to say «no») and start howling. If she insists, taking the spoon in your mouth, then spit out whole soup. Continue spitting, do not forget howling. Wee-wee in the pants are welcome.

11. If you continue singing it even at work – then you’ve finally matured to become a real parent.

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First Time Parenting Problems

All first time parents will be anxious about the health and well-being of their newborn baby. Especially in the first few weeks when everything is strange, it is often hard to know what is normal and when you can be confident that nothing is wrong with your baby. It is quite natural for
 you to worry about why the baby is crying, for example, or why she won’t sleep, or to question that she is ill. In bonding with your baby, you will gradually get to know her different cries and how to respond – with a feed, a nappy change, or just a cuddle. Remember however, never hesitate to seek advice from your doctor or health visitor when you are worried or think your baby is unwell.

Thankfully, more often then not, problems such as prolonged crying or sleeplessness can be solved.

Baby Won’t Stop Crying

Babies cry for lots of different reasons at all times of the day, the most common being that they are hungry or thirsty. They also cry because they are tired, too hot or too cold, if they need a nappy change, or from lack of physical contact.

If your baby just won’t stop crying, try the following useful tips:

“Must Have” Toys for Infants (Newborn to 12 Months Old) from a Mother’s …

If you asked me a year ago which toys would be the best ones to use for an infant I would have given you a blank stare and tried to fumble my way through an answer. Now, a year later and 12 months post-baby I have a brand new perspective on baby toys. Being a first-time mom bringing my
 baby to daycare for the first time, and trying to figure out how to entertain and assist my infant in growth makes me work hard to stay on the pulse of infant toys.

Parents these days aren’t looking just for toys that will entertain their children, they are looking for toys that will also educate their children and give them a head start into the next phase of their lives. We all would like to think we have the smartest baby on the block, and that starts with getting our babies to learn things at a young age. That’s where toys come into play.

When you arrive home with your newborn baby, the baby will most likely not be interested in much of anything besides eating and sleeping for the first couple months of life, but slowly but surely your baby becomes more and more aware of their surroundings. Later as your baby develops early signs of holding up their own heads they are amazed by the smallest of movements and alert to various sounds. Once they begin rolling from side-to-side they realize that they have the ability to move like mommy and daddy and they love stimulation. Once they begin to crawl all bets are off. Anything and everything intrigues them.

I was lucky as a first time mom that with the aid of the Internet for reference, exposure to a daycare environment on a regular basis, and a close knit circle of mommies that love to blog about their babies, that I came to realize what worked in stimulating my baby at each age.

Top Toys for a 1 Year Old


Top Ten Toys for a 1 Year Old Child

All of us know someone with children. At some point in your life, you will be asked to purchase a toy for a 1 year old. This can be a daunting task. An important thing to remember is the activity level of the 1 year old in question. If this is a baby that is very active, something to
 play sitting still is probably not going to interest them. A movie would not be a great choice in this case. For a child that is not very active or is not walking or showing signs of walking yet, an outside ride on toy would probably not be the best choice. Here is my top ten list of toys for 1 year olds of all types.

10. A water/sand table like the Step 2 Sand and Water Activity Center. Babies this age love to put their hands in things. A water/sand table allows them to play with their hands and build fine motor skills. It can gives a child that is not standing on their own yet something to lean on and still be able to play standing up. For a smaller mess, you can use water in the table and maybe set it outside. This would be a great way to cool off. For those brave souls, you can use sand. Just make sure you get play sand and they don’t eat it.

9. Every kid needs a little red wagon. I like the Radio Flyer brand. The great thing about this is it is a toy that can grow with them. For those non-active kids, this provides something to ride in, for those active kids it is something to haul things in. An added bonus is that it helps parents by giving them something to carry kids, or other things, in as well.

8. The Fisher Price Laugh and Learn Home playset. This is awesome because it gives kids a chance to crawl around, walk through, pull up on, and sit and play at. This is a great toy that will grow with them as well.

7. The Fisher Price Laugh and Learn Learning Puppy. This has been a favorite toy of every child I have ever known to get it. It has a music mode as well as a learning mode. This will provide countless hours of fun.

6. The Fisher Price Barnyard Bowling set will allow children to learn to handle a ball and roll it. they can also learn how to set the pins back up. Everyone knows kids like to knock things down, so this would be a great gift, especially for those on a budget.

Stages of Baby’s Development – a Newborn’s Basic Instincts


How Adults Can Help Baby’s Development

Newborns also exhibit many reflex responses to external stimulation and these patterns and reflexes help the baby to manage their energy resources as well as their responses to what is around them.

Just after birth, there is often a short spell where the baby is attentive, looking at and responding to
 people.

Sleep patterns of a newborn vary. Research has identified six different states of infant awareness:

  • Quiet or deep sleep: Baby will have eyes closed with no eye movements and no activity apart from occasional jerky movements; regular breathing.
  • Active or light sleep: Baby’s eyes are closed but rapid eye movements can be observed; breathing may be irregular, activity level is low.
  • Drowsiness: Baby’s eyes may open and close but appear dull when open; there is delayed response to stimulation and activity level varies.
  • Alert inactivity: Baby’s eyes are open and bright; his/her attention will focus on outside stimuli such as a ceiling light or something bright.
  • Alert activity: Baby’s eyes are open; activity level is high. Baby will react to stimulation and show increased startles and motor activity.
  • Crying: Intense crying that is hard to stop; high levels of motor activity.

A newborn will exhibit several reflexive responses. Some will last for life. The presence or absence of reflexes and their developmental course will give information about the baby’s neural responses. For instance when the doctor runs a thumb along the left side of baby’s spinal column, the baby should reflexively bent to the left. If this reflex occurs on one side but not the other it is possible the nerves are damaged on the side that shows no reflexive reaction.

A Concerned Parent’s Toy Safety Issue

As a parent, I have watched issues on T.V., blasting off about lead content in the toys consumers have purchased over a length of time, with many item recalls pertaining to those instances. The numbers reached very high levels of these recalls, so much so, that personally I thought maybe
my little girl was already playing with some. I was not overly concerned because my daughter didn’t get into a habit of putting anything beyond food and drink, lucky for me, and her.

Approximately one year ago though, something struck me in the thought of a safety issue, that had not crossed my mind, until one crazy day at my little girl’s bath time. I looked at all her colorful little toys, and they looked kind of dirty so I figured of course, I’ll clean them up. So I washed the exterior with some non-toxic cleaners, and then it really hit me, a little hole in the bottom of one, two, three, bath toys. The old fashioned “rubber duckies” or Winnie the Pooh, or some crazy looking pink elephant and baby. The holes were black looking, and the insides of these toys were filled with stagnant water and “sludge”, rather gross. I squeezed with all my might to extract this excrement. All I got was nasty water and some of the sludge, and not all of it would come out.

I reported the issue in question to the Consumer Products Safety Commission, explaining in full detail expressing my concerns. This is bacteria! Today I again sent my report in question to them for further review, and I’m thinking I’ll get the same back: “Report the issue again and send pictures.”

These toys are found all over, in every country, in every store, including the wonderful U.S.A. in manufacturing them. They all range from great Disney characters loved by children to the most basic “rubber duckies.” They are made in a manner that it is pretty much impossible to clean the interior, and what comes out of them could be getting into the mouths of our youngsters.

1 MONTH OLD : WEEK 2 – Your 5-week-old

Your 5-week-old

How your baby’s growing:

Smiling is universal. A baby’s first smile happens at about the same time in all cultures, so get ready for your baby to reward all your loving care with a beaming, toothless, just-for-you grin. This will probably make your heart melt, even if you’ve just had your worst night yet.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 5-week-old’s development

Your life: The postpartum checkup

Soon you’ll have the last of the series of checkups that began with your first prenatal trip to your doctor or midwife. Your care provider will want to be sure you’re doing fine — emotionally as well as physically — following the stresses of pregnancy, labor, delivery, and becoming a new parent.

During the pelvic exam, your doctor or midwife will want to see that any tears, scratches, or bruises to your vagina or cervix have healed. If your cervix is healed, you may also have a Pap smear. She’ll examine your perineum if you had an episiotomy or tearing. She’ll also feel your belly to be sure that there’s no tenderness, and if you had a c-section she’ll inspect your scar to see how it’s healing.

Your breasts will be checked as well. If you’re breastfeeding, your caregiver will examine you to find out whether you have any clogged ducts, which could lead to an infection like mastitis. If you aren’t nursing, she’ll want to be sure there are no hard or sore areas that might indicate an infection. She’ll also want to see if your milk is drying up.

You’ll probably be told it’s fine to begin having sex again, although many new moms don’t feel their sex drive or energy kick in for a few more weeks or even months. Regardless of your interest level, you ought to discuss postpartum birth control, because it’s possible to get pregnant before you’ve gotten your period back and even if you’re breastfeeding.

Your caregiver will also be concerned about your emotional health. As many as 4 out of 5 new moms become mildly depressed, commonly called the baby blues. However, if these down feelings last more than two weeks, you may have postpartum depression, a more serious condition. Your doctor or midwife can recommend interventions that really help, such as a therapist who sees lots of moms like you or an antidepressant that’s safe to take when nursing.

3 questions about: Working with your child’s doctor

How often will my baby see a doctor?
Most pediatricians and family physicians like to see newborns for well-baby checkups once or twice in the first ten days of life and then at 1 month, 2 months, 4 months, 6 months, 9 months, and 12 months. If your baby has any medical problems or difficulty gaining weight, your doctor may want to see your baby more often.

How can I get the most out of these well-baby checkups?
Doctors are busy, and it’s likely that the checkup will fly by and that you’ll be distracted by your baby at the visit, so come prepared with our doctor visit worksheets. Jot down in advance any questions you may have. Keep a notebook and pen in a handy place at home, and bring it to appointments so you can write down information like your baby’s weight, length, and vaccinations, as well as any advice or instructions the doctor provides. If you forget to ask something during the appointment, don’t worry. You can always call the doctor between appointments and have your question answered by phone.

You’re the expert on your baby — and the doctor is the expert on baby care and health — so good communication is key. If you disagree with your doctor’s advice or feel your comments are being dismissed, speak up. It may be that you’ve misunderstood one another. Most doctors appreciate your honesty and want their interaction with you and your baby to be rewarding and informative. If you find that you have serious disagreements, you may want to find another doctor with whom you feel more comfortable. Ask friends for referrals.

What if I need to talk to the doctor after hours?
Be sure you know what the routine is in your doctor’s practice. Most physicians have a system for responding to questions and concerns — usually either a message service you can call to leave your name and number, or a nurse advice line that you can reach after hours. Also find out how emergencies are handled in the practice and which local emergency rooms and after-hours clinics you can access. The most important thing to remember about seeking your doctor’s advice is that there are no stupid questions when it comes to your baby’s health.

10 Ways to Help Your Newborn Digest Formula

New parents may be worried about trying to help their newborn digest formula. While breast milk is more digestible than formula, there are some techniques and tips new parents and caregivers can utilize to help their newborns digest their formula.

1. Straighten Out

Feed baby while her head is in alignment with her body, not tiled to the side, to help her swallow more
 easily.

2. Bottle Position

Hold the bottle upright to ensure that baby is sucking in only formula. When the bottle is not upright, an air bubble may enter the nipple and baby could take it in, increasing the chance of indigestion. Angle the bottle so the nipple fills with formula before offering it to baby.

3. Do Not Prop Bottles

As tempting as it may be, do not prop a bottle of formula for a newborn. This can also cause air bubbles to get into the nipple, or baby may take in too much formula at once. When you hold your newborn while bottle feeding him, you will be more able to read his cues.

3. Hold Baby Upright

While bottle feeding your newborn, keep him in a semi-upright position to aid digestion of the formula.

4. Burp Often

Take the time to burp the baby often while bottle feeding, to help baby pass any gas bubbles.

5. Feed Less, More Often

If formula digestion is an issue for baby, consider bottle feeding baby less formula more frequently. Smaller amounts will be easier to digest.

6. Consider A Different Formula

After discussing a newborn’s digestion issues with the pediatrician, consider switching to a lactose-free formula. Or ask her about using a formula without cow’s milk protein. A soy-based formula may be better tolerated by your newborn. A third type of formula to consider is one for babies with intolerance or allergies to both animal and soy protein, a hypoallegenic formula.

7. Use the Right Nipple

Bottle nipples come in different flow speeds. Make sure you are using the right nipple for your baby’s age. If the hole in the bottle nipple is too big, baby will receive too much milk and may choke on it.

8. Keep Baby Upright

Can Massage Stop My Baby’s Reflux?

Infant massage could help reduce bouts of baby’s acid reflux if your baby enjoys massage and is relaxed by it. All babies are different, and some will enjoy a gentle massage more than others. Infant massage, along with kangaroo care, or skin on skin contact is often recommended for
 premature babies. Premature babies also suffer from acid reflux at a greater rate than full-term babies do, and if the preemie was tubed the chances of him developing prolonged reflux are increased.

An infant massage may not completely stop all episodes of acid reflux, particularly during a baby’s first six months of life. The infant massage can help relax a baby and keep him calm and happy. An overly-excited baby is more prone to acid reflux, as is a baby who is unhappy and crying. Crying can worsen an episode of acid reflux. If giving your baby an infant massage helps reduce or alleviate crying, giving infant massages regularly may help manage and reduce baby’s episodes of acid reflux.

Infant Massage

An infant massage should be given to baby before she eats, particularly if you will be placing baby flat on the floor. Prepare the area with a soft blanket or towel and make the room warm enough for baby to comfortable while wearing only a diaper. Dim the lights to create a cozy environment.

Loosen the top of the baby’s diaper slightly, to alleviate any pressure it could be causing on the abdominal area. This is a good tip to use at any time for babies who suffer from acid reflux. You can use a vegetable-based, edible oil to help you with the infant massage, if you want. Stay away from nut-based oils since any massaged hands or feet could end up in baby’s mouth and nuts are a common allergen. A light grapeseed oil is ideal.

Warm the grapeseed oil between your hands by adding a drop to your palm and rubbing hands together. Tell your baby that it’s time for a nice massage and smile. Start at baby’s feet and move your hand and fingers in one long stroke up the leg. Repeat a couple of times and then do the other leg.

Always massage towards the heart, whether you are giving an infant massage or an adult a massage.

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